Every second, every moment, we ask ourselves: What will I say? What will I think? How will I behave? How will I respond? How will I act? Where am I going now/tomorrow /in 10 years? How do I want my day/week/month to look? How do I want to feel? What do I need to do to make myself happy? Who am I? Who do I want to be? Do I like myself?
The biggest problem is that people can only judge by their own experience, and most are led by their bad experience. Only a few people support some insane ideas without judging. Most people happily share their bad experience, which influences our decisions by strengthening our fear of failure.
Why don’t we trust ourselves, even if we always know what’s right for us? Who else can feel on our behalf? Who else lives in our skin? Who else knows what feels good and what doesn’t? A doctor? A friend? A mother? Nope.
You, yes, only you know what’s good for you. And I know whats good for me. Nobody else.
Not listening to naysayers and doubters, and ignoring them. FUCK THEM!!
It’s a hard one, because the ones who discourage consciously or subconsciously make us emotionally weak. Here we need our self-love and self-compassion the most. If they make you feel bad, embrace yourself with the most love and care, just as you would do with a loved friend or a little child. Cry if you need to, be sad, but don’t forget that the path you decided to take is amazing.
Fuck the naysayers !!